A lot of the attraction for me - attraction to men's butts and to spanking them - has to do with trying to pin down the elusive nature of desire. It drives me to write about it.
What is it about a butt anyway, that fascinates and captivates my attention? Well - I have identified some of my preferences. I like a substantial butt. And roundness - that's important. I think the depth of a crack is also significant to me. The deeper the better.
I know it has to do with muscles. Runners and soccer players have especially appealing butts - if they have enough meat on them. But then there are the guys who don't exercise or anything and nonetheless have backsides that radiate sensuality.
I have often imagined that if only the information were available, it would be possible to know EVERYTHING about a man, from looking at his butt. The fine looking rumps - according to this theory of mine - would by nature be attached to fine and _s_e_x_y guys.
I love the unconscious display. You know what I mean - guys bent over working along the road, that sort of thing. Construction crews offer a lot of this kind of viewing enjoyment. It's a wonder I don't have a car accident every time I pass one!
And then - the spanking. Well - for me - I like it mild and adult. I think for me it appeals as SOMETHING to do that focuses attention on the look and feel of a butt and also registers a response. I'm always amazed when viewing spanking videos, if the guy being spanked doesn't get aroused - and they usually don't. I assume maybe those guys aren't REALLY into it that much?
I love the gradual uncovering of a man's twin treasures. And I definitely prefer it if the spanker undresses the spanked rather than simply ordering him to strip. A man pulling down another man's white briefs - god, what an image for me!
About the title of this editorial - that word, "ineffability." I think I first encountered it in James Joyce, either in PORTRAIT OF THE ARTIST or ULYSSES. "Ineffable" also is heard in one of the TS Eliot poems used in the lyrics for the musical CATS. It means "unable to be expressed in words." To me - it means fascinating and mysterious - and nothing is more ineffable to me than a fine butt.
I'm curious if any of you hot guys share this particular view. Or do you have the words you need to describe it?