[ note: the following is on a subject that many men object to and do not use in spanking ever. Nevertheless, increasing numbers seem to practice it in one form or another as part of spanking. It was sent to me by a MMSA Stories reader and is re-copied and posted here for those who may have interest or who may wish to consider adding to their repertoire. Otherwise, please delete. Cal]
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Lambert -
No question many men agree with you, but you're in the areas of quiet secrets on this one. There aren't too many men I know of who appreciate or realize how the mere whispered word, "enema," can have a deep effect on the emotions of a late high school, more commonly a pre school, or college aged man. Tell him if he does it again he'll get one -- or around here I will simply say "You'll get the nozzle?" -- and the lock of panic is stunning attractive on his face and in his eyes. You're right, "it is sure to get the boy's attention."
And my experience equals your own: "they tend to get hard quickly and stay hard right through the insertion and purge." Here I use a slow insertion, playing with my boy and keeping him off guard over my lap by first greasing up his whole inner buns, balls too (but never his _c_o_c_k_ as sometimes that will cause him to cum), then slowly inserting my finger to loosen him up a bit and finely lubricating his opening. When it's finally time for the nozzle, I favor a tease there as well, a bit in then out, some conversation, then in, etc. and so forth and so on. But, when ultimately it's all the way in and up where I want it to be, I keep it there tight with my fingers holding it in with my fingers against his opening so he's aware of both the sensation from the nozzle as well as my fingers tips against him so personally. By this time for sure his legs and feet are spread out wide behind him as well as being spread apart to both sides as far wide as they will go. I keep it right up there and enjoy his discomfort while I am in turn enjoying the beauty of how impaled and open he is to me at that moment. Sure, he's uncomfortable but he also knows he's well held and soon this time it's going to happen. He can only wait. You will decide when.
Personally I really take my time. When I release the liquid I also tease my boy by giving him only a small bit at a time but I never give a boy a whole Fleet or a whole bag. I only give him enough for him to come to grips with the sensations he's feeling and my being in charge of his body. I can keep him in that position much longer that way. But I continue to keep the nozzle far up there so if at any point he does something that displeased me, I will quickly release the whole of it up his ass in punishment. You can be sure he will learn patience and also to be very still over your lap.
I take it out equally slowly and then release him to the bath room when you're ready. You're right, he will stay firmly hard.
But here any boy I've use this with knows for sure that if he's too long in the bath room, he'll be going over my knees and get a worse spanking for delaying things when he does finally comes out. Unfortunately his tension is his built up in his natural fear and emotions that if he's too quick cleaning and coming out, he stands the possibility of embarrassing himself after he comes out and spreads himself over your knees for a spanking. How long is "too long?" That's the point. He will work himself up in worry and be ready for whatever you have in mind as he walks out the door towards you. You will decide when he comes to you based on many things, including how he comes to you, and presents himself.
And you're right. His spanking is always at this point is a solid and intimate one. He needs it. Many boys will want it.
If you want to increase the pleasure, confine him to a size to small jock while he's getting it all above and keep the pressure on those sensitive male "G" spots. Watch what happens then!
"I do not think the boys get 'into' the enema as discipline like Dominic, but I am not sure that the pain/pleasure principle does not operate here in some way." I'm sure it does if you do it right. Try the modus operandi above and let me know what happens? Dominic's a young man who will tell you he owes me everything for getting him out of and away from a bad situation and the predestined life he was to assume with the man he'd made an error in linking himself up with. Now he fine and focusing on his own future and what he wants for his own career. He may be only 25, but he's learned how to do exactly as he's told and, at the same time, developed pleasure. He's a beautiful boy, tall, gay, and proud of it.
For sure, "The pain and embarrassment of the enema...the pain is not great under normal circumstances...and the pleasure of a bit of warm water and a prostate massage combines to produce a powerful _s_e_x_ual effect." The powerful _s_e_x_ual effect is real and in many ways it is a kind of ultimate submission of himself and his body to you over your lap. Yes, "there is a glow that remains" and you can see it in his eyes and on his face. For sure "the boys tend to cum very quickly after an enema and the application of paddle, strap, hand or hairbrush to the butt." You got that right, but if it's intended to be a _s_e_x_ual situation you cause him to cum when you want him too. That's how it's done here, including with straight boys.
Ultimately this technique is to give the boy a lesson and provide you pleasure. You control both. There may not be too many who have the enjoyment of ministering to a late high school or college boy like this, but those who do, often also understand it's value and appreciate it's pleasure.
It works for me. Hope it also works for you just a well!
Enjoy! Lucretius