p>Date: 30-07-2000
[For background on this actual correspondence, see part #1]
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Cal,
OK, I know I don't have to do this but I want to. You didn't explicitly tell me but yet you did but still for sure this one is my decision and I really wanted to. It's just the right thing to do. So, I did and I thought you might find it interesting. Here's the letter I sent to Steward, the guy I got very close to meeting just before you took me seriously.
Steward,
Guess what? I met the other guy I've been emailing for a couple years now. The guy I'd always write long emails to and talk about this thing pretty in depth. We almost met a few months ago but it didn't happen. He didn't want to meet me then and didn't think I was ready or serious. So recently, it got to a point where I was really pushing to meet him. He also felt bad that I went around and met that guy down south of here, and he really felt that should stop playing around and getting hurt. He called me out of the blue last week and said alright get on the plane. Let's meet. Well I did. I went to meet him. I wouldn't normally do something like that but A) I could afford to make the trip and B) I consider him a close friend. We talked and emailed a lot over time, and he is someone I trust, even, dare I say it, care about!!
But we met anyway, and everything he always said or implied was true. I stayed there for 3 days, and yeah he spanked me. A lot, you might say. But we began to grow closer, because I wasn't just there to get my ass slapped. He helped me to lose a lot of my inhibitions and what not. The potential for us to be extremely close friends is there, and will happen. Not just to be spank-mates" or whatever you call that. We may also do business together.
Anyway, the truth is I never wanted to go around meeting people to spank me. Always made me uncomfortable and uneasy. With him.. well I read all his thing (he posted MANY on the web) and I related to them, as well as how we emailed for so long, and when I finally met him and _d_a_m_n_ it wasn't easy getting him to agree to meeting me, but yes, it was actually all true. Everything he said was true; that it is much more than just spanking.
One thing he made me promise was to never let myself get spanked by anyone else impersonally and just meeting for that. Well, actually, he would have made me promise that if I wasn't already in agreement. In my case, I was already going to not meet anyone else. So when he told me not to, it was a mutual thing. But I also feel that I found what I was looking for, and it's either going to grow a lot stronger and closer with him, or it will not. Either way, I can surely say I won't or don't want to meet with another guy for this kind of stuff. The first thing is that I'm straight. Second thing is, this is very very personal and private to me, and to act upon it in the real world ANY more than I have to is a bad idea. That includes going around meeting other people.
Also, there is always a risk when you meet someone like this... and I'm not saying you are a risk, I'm just stating the fact. I found what I wanted / needed, even more, and also will find a very close friend out of it. So why take on any more risk to pursue more spanking with someone I don't know really well? I'm well within where I need to be right now. Maybe even past where I wanted to be, and it's all good. I'm staying put.
However, with you it's a little different. I also have been emailing you for quite a while, although not in as much depth as the other guy, but I wouldn't even bother writing an email like this to anyone else in my mailbox. Because I consider you a friend... but I'm not going to get spanked by anyone else.
You can email me anytime. I hope this all doesn't make you feel bad. I'm just being straight up with you and honest.
Thanks,
Scott