Letter #13 "Mine From an Older Man"
Dear Cal,
I am an attractive, masculine, well-educated male in my mid twenties. I am beholding to a very handsome, more mature guy who is older than myself and yes we are borh gay. He believes very deeply in the value and need of corporal punishment for a younger guy like me; and, as such, I have consistently received spankings over his lap. Although I most always find these spankings to have been painful and difficult ones for me to receive and sometimes I've resented them and didn't think I had deserved some of thej, I am also now deeply grateful for them and to him for having taken a no-nonsense approach to me overall. I have no doubt now that these spankings have made me a better person. They have helped me to grow and to become much more aware of my own faults and shortcomings and getting things done I want to get done.
Like yourself, he also believes in bare bottomed spankings and everything that I am wearing comes off prior to punishment. It really sets the mood and I know what's coming when I'm told to strip down and wait for him in the back room. I am then placed over his lap and a thick wooden hair brush is used on me. These spankings hurt a great deal. This is the hardest part for me, the amount of pain involved. He believes in strict, prolonged and extremely painful spankings. I have cried more than once during discipline, something which I do not easily do. Finally, I have often wished there was some other easier way for me to be made aware of my faults and to grow as a person. But, when I am totally honest with myself, I know that there is no "easier way" and that spankings are a necessary and essential part of our relationship if I want to hold on to an older guy I really like. I learn from each one, but I get spanked a lot! He likes to spank my ass and for sure it's something he's gotten into. Weekends are his favorite time for spanking me, especially Sundays, but I get them during the week too. Here it can happen anytime. One example, worst time for me, was when we were at a pool party and he told me to get out of the pool and meet him inside and he said it in front of a couple of my friends! That was awful. In a bedroom in that place he pulled down my suit and slapped my bare ass plenty. Later they told me they not only knew what was going on, but they could hear him slapping my ass. Hope you don't do that, but again, a strong and determined older man is a real advantage.
Yet, this relationship has been better for me than anything I've ever experienced in my whole life. I'll admit it and I tell anyone reading this who is young and needs a start and some directions with some doors opened to find a older man just like mine. You won't like it the first time he decides to spank you for sure, but it has MAJOR advantages short and long-term.
Thanks again for sharing. It helps to know that other guys are also experiencing punishment like Larry and Scott get. Please feel free to publish this if you like and my best luck to both of them.
Yours,
Mark