Letter #15 "Advantages of the Switch for My Boy and for Scott too"
Cal -
I am writing to share something the letters between you and Scott brought to my mind (but maybe you already know this?). Anyway, I think it would work very good with Scott and his "spank god" stuff which he certainly would not get away with around me! Scott sounds like a young man who needs a good spanking every day until he's brought back completely into line. That's what he'd get here and that's what I'm recommending for Scott too but as follows.
Anyway, with my boy one issue that often comes up is privacy and how to discipline him immediately when he needs it or at least giving him a few quick ones to wake him up until we get home and I can spank him properly? Sometimes others are around or even if we're in a hotel or on vacation or some other place where you do not want outsiders to hear him getting punished and a strap cracking across his bare ass is too loud and too telltale. It is about those kinds of times when he needs some quick attention that I want to write about.
I always want to punish my boy as soon as possible after any offense. That's best no matter where we happen to be or even if others are around. He needs it immediately and that means he needs it across his bare ass right then and there! Now you may run your house differently, but around here, my boy's going to get his ass smacked immediately. He knows that and the very fact that I always do slap his bare ass immediately keeps him well on his toes no matter where we are or who happens to be visiting, including times when his parents are in the house. He knows from experience I am going to slap his bare ass anytime he screws up. For sure I am going to take the time to do it! And this works! So I recommend this for Scott's own good and hope you will use it too.
But I also want to punish him before my anger subsides. So, when I don't want to wait to punish Len or if someone's nearby or we're at home but others are here or just the walls are too thin, I simply turn up the TV and take him into a private room or someplace and lock the door. He knows what that means! Then I make him take off ALL his clothes. Everything! I then use a hickory switch which only makes a slight whistling sound and a little thwack on his bare bottom. Len absolutely hates the switch when I give it to him across his bare ass and he's right to do so too! He hates it much worse than any spanking. It's never long before he's dancing around begging me to stop. As I'm sure you know, you don't switch him as hard as possible or swing it high and wide or anything like that all all. Just some quick, well aimed stinging swats, quick or slow depending on what you're trying to teach him, stripes across his bare ass that make almost no sound, that's all he needs! No one can hear the switch landing, but he can sure fee it.
Sometimes also I give my boy a full switching early in the morning before anybody else who happens to be around wakes up or late at night in the evening before we turn in. I have had to do this several times to Len when his parents were visiting and staying here. I take Len to a private cellar room and make him strip completely and I feel totally confident in my ability to give him a switching without any let up. Of course Len has to keep his voice down, but that's his problem. He's the hold it in and grit his teeth type anyway, but more importantly he is extremely embarrassed about ANYBODY knowing I discipline him which, of course, add to why corporate punishment and even a small switching is so effective on Len who has just turned 23. While he sometimes tried to argue or talk me out of it when we're alone, he never resists in any way whatsoever but immediately goes down to "our room" when I tell him to if anyone or his parents are here. For sure he does not want to risk a scene or even a hint of any of this in front of anyone else! It works very, very well!
You should have been here to watch him squirming when his parents were here! He tried so hard to be completely perfect, but, of course he could not keep it up for the whole week. Then when I'd switched him in the basement, he would spent a long time washing his face and still he was so concerned that they would notice. It was funny to watch his nervousness and increasing nervousness and anxiety as the week went on that his folks would hear. He begged me to hold off until after they had left, but that is not my style. Once he heard me speak directly, he would go down there quickly and wait for me. The switch worked as a very effective discipline for him though ultimately he suspected that his Dad had caught on to the fact that something was up! Not my problem.
The switch can leave marks and can cut a boy's ass if you don't know how to do it, but you can explain how to do it far better than I can, I'm sure. I do not ever want to cut or bruise Len's ass too much either and usually I do not. I just always want to discipline him quickly and quietly. For that the switch is perfect!
Anyway, I just wanted to give the others the confidence to let boys they spank know that they can be severely punished at a moments notice. This does wonders to prevent boys from trying to get away with stupid things or becoming to _c_o_c_k_y while others are around or when you are visiting friends or on a holiday, whenever. The switch, even a small thin one, is extremely effective, believe me! It works very well around here. Try it on Scott and Larry and give them both an extra few for me, especially Scott. I would love to see Scott get it! Any chances?
Eric