Well, I am a straight male, 37 years old. For years I have had an interest in discipline spankings. Many times I fantasized about getting a true spanking from a landlord, a boss, or some other older authority figure. Some females tried but mostly it was foreplay and always to light. I never thought of getting real damage, just spanked firm like my parents did until I was about 12.
Over time, I realized I often thought of the spanker being an older male. Nothing _s_e_x_ual, he would just spank me like he would a bad kid. Bare bottom even if warrented.
I talked to many guys online. For most, just spanking wasnt enough. I did appreciate their honesty. Some were too severe, some I wanted more of a slave than a person to mentor discipline. Others just seemed insincere.
I guess I was pickey. A bare spanking was ok, otk was, and spanked in front of theres also was ok. I wasnt into being nude (pants and undies to knees, not off, more parental) and not into exams and such. A real dad would do those things. Also, I didnt want to be disciplined at certain times, but as I deserved it for bad behaviour so that I would change for the better.
I finally met online an older man named Phil. He was 60 so old enough to be my real dad. He seemed sinere so I agreed to meet. Things went well and he wasnt pushy at all. After talking online and on phone some, he told me I needed to get spanked for not doing my housework. He was right.
I went to his house, very nervously. I was afraid and at same time, knew I deserved discipline. Once there, I had to bare my bottom and he paddled me about 20 times while I was bent over a chair. Then I left.
During the spanking, its just regretted pain. Later, the knowledge I was justly punished is the comforting part. My bottom was sore, but I felt better! I got spanked as adult by a male for the first time.
Over the next few months, he kept me mostly in line. He never hesitated to spank or ground me when I didnt do as I should. He was firm but fair. We were good friends, there was never anything _s_e_x_ual.
Well, now he has moved. I am currently undisciplined and without a mentor in my life. I miss the guidence.